About Brandon

On the outside, I probably seemed very confident, cool and collected most of the time. But even I was not consciously aware that lurking under the surface was crippling insecurities, shame, regret, fear and religious trauma. In fact, for many years I was clueless as to how severely I had suppressed so much of myself - my emotions, opinions, sexuality, agency, desires - all in an effort to “be good” - a noble aim, right? WRONG!

It all seemed to erupt at once and I almost decimated my whole life trying to understand what was going on inside me. Daily alcohol and numerous distractions couldn’t numb the depression and anxiety. I didn’t expect my rock bottom to be so low. For years I tried everything - medication, therapy, books, podcasts, courses, nutrition, support groups. It was much messier than it needed to be. I caused unnecessary pain to those I love the most. I wish I would have sought the right help sooner.

It took me too long to stop “being good” and instead find true confidence, get clear on who I am, understand my value, and overcome my fears to create a life of impact and fulfillment. On the other side of my “mid-life crisis” I feel like a completely new and different person. Now it’s my mission to help men get un-stuck, build their self-confidence, and start creating a fulfilling life of purpose that overflows from the power within themselves.

I have multiple coaching certifications and many years of experience coaching men and team leadership in business, community and family. I’ve been married to my wife Melissa for 20 years, raising five (blended) kids.

Let’s not waste another moment. Reach out and let’s get your life moving forward.